Islam has laid down lofty standards for how the Muslim, who traverses the methodology of the Prophetic Sunnah, should deal with his brother who has differed with him on an issue of ijtihad. Indeed, how outstanding is the statement of the Prophet (peace be upon him): “Indeed I have been sent to perfect noble manners.” (Al-Adab Al-Mufrad, No.273, authenticated by Al-Albani)
From these etiquettes:
1. To have an open heart in accepting what comes to you by way of clarification of the mistakes that you have made, and to know that this is from the sincere advice which your brother for Allah’s sake is giving to you as a gift. So know that your refusal of the truth and your becoming angry with yourself is actually from pride; may Allah protect us. Indeed, the most eminently truthful (peace be upon him), said: “Pride is to reject the truth and to scorn other people.” (Sahih Muslim, No. 91)






