[Quran 60:4]
[Al-Muntakhab] “But you people have had in Ibrahim and his followers a good example and a distinguished quality of action and conduct that induces imitation. They said to their people: “We are certainly innocent of your ills and of your false gods you worship besides Allah”. “We refuse to recognize you or submit to you, and enmity and hatred between us shall forever prevail until you have abandoned idolatry and submitted to the authority of Allah and until you have sincerely believed in Him alone with works imprinted with wisdom and piety”.
Therefore, do not confuse the issue and fail to distinguish between invoking Allah’s forgiveness on behalf of your dead, and the supplication made by Ibrahim on behalf of his father. Ibrahim had promised his father earlier that he would invoke Allah’s forgiveness on his behalf, albeit he could not guarantee the outcome. But when he realized that his father remained a faithful adherent to Paganism, he once rejected him and declared his innocence of his fatherhood. When Ibrahim and his followers resolved to quit their people and their homeland they prayed: “Our Creator, in You, we trust, and we repent the disagreeable time we spent with our people, and we repent what we might have done or left undone, and You are the end and the purpose for which we are destined”.
[Muhammad Asad] “Indeed, you have had a good example in Abraham and those who followed him, when they said unto their [idolatrous] people: “Verily, we are quit of you and of all that you worship instead of God: we deny the truth of whatever you believe; and between us, and you there has arisen enmity and hatred, to last until such a time as you come to believe in the One God!”
The only exception was Abraham’s saying to his father, “I shall indeed pray for [God’s] forgiveness for thee, although I have it not in my power to obtain anything from God in thy behalf.” [And Abraham and his followers prayed:] “O our Sustainer! In Thee have we placed our trust, and unto Thee do we turn: for unto Thee is all journeys’ end”.
[Amatul Rahman Omar] “There is indeed a noble example for you (to follow) in Abraham and his companions. Behold! They said to their people, We have nothing to do with you, and We disown that you worship apart from Allah. We disapprove of all that you say and do. A long-lasting (type of) enmity and rancor has arisen and become apparent between you and us, no doubt. (It will last) till you believe in Allah alone.’ But (you have no example to emulate) in the words of Abraham to his sire (when he said), I will surely ask forgiveness for you from Allah, though I can do nothing against (the will of) Allah.’ (Abraham and his companions also prayed to their Lord), `Our Lord! in You we put our trust, and to You alone do we turn (in repentance), and towards You alone is the (final) return.
[Commentary Abdullah Yusuf Ali] “This prayer indicates what our attitude should be. We must trust to ALLAH, and not to ALLAH’S enemies to protect and befriend ourselves, our families, or those near and dear to us”
Arshad Chaudhry