Hidayath Kay Asrar O Ramuz
Change Your Life
1 – Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, (PBUH), said,”This world is the prison of the believer and the paradise of the unbeliever.” [Muslim]
2 – Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, (PBUH), said, “The Fire is surrounded by indulgence (pleasures) of appetites and Jannah is surrounded by things people dislike.” [Agreed upon]
3 – Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, (PBUH), said, “A man follows the religion of his close friend, so each of you should be very careful about whom he takes as a close friend.” [Abu Dawud and at-Tirmidhi]
4 – Sahl ibn Sa’d reported that the Messenger of Allah, (PBUH), said, “Anyone who safeguards for My sake what is between his jaws and what is between his legs, I will safeguard Jannah (Paradise) for him.”[Agreed upon]
5- Anas reported that the Prophet, (PBUH), said, “None of you can truly be said to believe until he wants for his brother what he wants for himself.” [Agreed upon]
6 – An-Nu’man ibn Bashir reported that the Messenger of Allah, (PBUH), said, “The metaphor of the believers in their mutual love, mercy, and affection is that of the body. When one limb of it (the body) complains, the rest of the body collapses with sleeplessness and fever.“[Agreed upon]
7 – Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, (PBUH), said, “The strong man is not the one who throws people in wrestling. The strong man is the one who has control of himself when he is angry.” [Agreed upon]
8 – Jarir ibn ‘Abdullah reported that the Messenger of Allah said, “If someone does not show mercy to people, Allah will not show mercy to him.” [Agreed upon]
9 – Abu Muhammad al-Hasan ibn ‘Ali ibn Abi Talib said, “I memorized from the Messenger of Allah, (PBUH): ‘Abandon anything that gives you doubt for what gives you no doubt. Truthfulness is peace of mind and lying is doubt.” [At-Tirmidhi]
10 – Abu Umama Sudayy ibn ‘Ajlan al-Bahili said, “I heard the Messenger of Allah, (PBUH), speaking in the Hajj of Farewell. He said, ‘Fear Allah, pray your five prayers, fast your month (of Ramadhan), pay the Zakat on your property and obey your leaders and you will enter the Jannah of your Lord.” [At-Tirmidhi}
Joining Ties Of Kinship
Relatives are those who are related to you through blood and close ties; such as the brother, the uncle, the aunt, or their children. Everyone who has a tie of relation with you has certain rights upon you in accordance with how closely they are related to you. Allah said regarding this: “And give to the relative his right.” (Qur’an, 17:26). Allah also said: “And worship Allah alone, and do not set up any partner to Him in worship, and be kind and good to the parents, and to the relatives.” (Qur’an, 4:36)
So it is obligatory upon everyone to treat his relatives in the best possible manner, and to support them in accordance with their needs, and what they seek of help and support. And this is what is enjoined by the Shariah, the ‘Aql (sound reasoning), and the Fitrah (natural disposition).
There are several textual evidence encouraging and urging Silat-ur-Rahim (joining the ties of kinship).
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Whosoever believes in Allah and the Last Day let him keep the ties of kinship.” (Al-Bukhari, no. 6138)
Unfortunately, many people do not observe this right and transgress the bounds. Some of them do not seek to join ties with relatives or show kindness to them; neither through wealth, nor through good behavior, nor through the giving of occasional gifts and presents nor through rendering help to them in their times of need. Indeed, days and months may pass without even seeing or visiting them! Sometimes, rather than seeking to join ties of kinship, some people even intend to sever such ties, by trying to harm their relatives – either through words or actions. Such people may keep close ties with those who are not relatives, yet cut off ties with their relatives!
Others only maintain ties of relationship with those who maintain ties with them and cut off ties with those who cut off from them. So they are not really maintaining ties of relationship; they are only acting tit-for-tat.
The true waasil (one who keeps ties of kinship) keeps ties of relation for the sake of Allah – regardless of whether his relations keep ties with him or not.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “The waasil is not the one who merely does so out of reciprocation. Rather, the waasil is the one who even when the relatives cut off from him, still maintains ties with them.” So a man asked: “O Messenger of Allah. I have relatives with whom I maintain ties of kinship, yet they cut off from me. I treat them kindly, yet they treat me in an evil manner. And I am forbearing and patient with them, yet they behave rudely and ignorantly towards me.” The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “If the situation is as you say, then it is as if you are filling their mouths with sand. And Allah will continue to aid and support you as long as you continue doing what you are doing.” (Al-Bukhari, no. 5911)
If there were no other rewards for keeping ties of kinship, except that Allah keeps ties with the waasil in this world and the hereafter, and that He extends His Mercy due to it, and makes malters easier through it, and removes distress and anxieties by it, then that would be more than sufficient. However, along with this, Silat-ur-Rahim brings family and relatives close to one another, increases love and compassion between one another, and cultivates the habit of mutual help in times of ease and hardship. These are well-known things that are experienced on a daily basis. When ties of kinship are not maintained, then each one of the mentioned benefits turns into the opposite, and great harm comes to society.
– By Sheikh Muhammad Saleh Bin Al-Uthaymeen
- January, 22
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Paradise: The Eternal Abode
Paradise is the tremendous reward that Allah (SWT) has prepared for His beloved (awliyaa) and those who obey Him. It is complete joy and pleasure, where nothing is lacking and nothing can disturb its purity. What Allah (SWT) and His Messenger have told us about it makes out heads spin because our minds are not able to comprehend the greatness of such blessings.
Listen to the words of Allah (SWT) in this hadith qudsi:
“I have prepared for My righteous slaves that which no eye has seen, no ear has heard, and has never crossed the mind of any human being“.
Then the Prophet (saw) said, “Recite if you wish: “No person knows what is kept hidden for them of joy as a reward for what they used to do”. (32:17)
The joys of Paradise are far greater than the pleasures of this world, which pale into insignificance in comparison. al-Bukhaari reports from Sahl ibn Sa’d as-Sa’idee that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said: “A space the size of a whip in Paradise is better than this world and all that is in it“. (Fath al-Baari, 6/319, an-Nawawi’s commentary on Muslim 17/166)
Because admittance to Paradise and salvation from the Fire are according to Allah’s will and judgment, it is a great victory and tremendous success, as Allah (SWT) says:
“Only he who is saved far from the Fire and admitted to the Garden will have indeed attained the object of life [or: been successful]” (3:185)
“Allah has promised to believers – men and women – Gardens under which rivers flow, to dwell therein [forever], and beautiful mansions in Gardens of everlasting bliss. But the greatest bliss is the Good Pleasure of Allah. That is the supreme felicity [or success]“. (9:72)
“…and those who obey Allah and His Messenger will be admitted to Gardens with rivers flowing underneath, to abide therein [forever] and that will be the supreme achievement“. (4:13)
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Soud Muashray Key Bigar Ka Sabab
Soud Muashray Key Bigar Ka Sabab
They Never Look At Him In The Eye
The rights of the Prophet (peace be upon him) are the most important, after the rights of Allah. There is no human who has more rights than the Prophet. Allah said, what translated means:
“Verily, We have sent you (O Muhammad) as a witness, as a bearer of glad tidings, and as a warner. In order that you (O mankind) may believe in Allah and His Messenger, and that you assist and honor him (Muhammad)…” (Qur’an, 48:8-9)
Therefore, love for the Prophet (peace be upon him) should be more than one’s love for himself, his children, family, and worldly possessions. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, what translated means: “None of you will reach belief till I become dearer to him than his children, parents and all humans.” (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
The Prophet (peace be upon him) has many rights. Respect and appreciation for him should be observed in the best manner. Respecting the Prophet includes respect for and adherence to his Sunnah after his death. Due rights should be accorded to the Prophet without exaggeration. When one reads how the companions used to love and respect the Prophet, one knows the importance of this matter. When Quraish (the Prophet’s tribe) sent Urwa Bin Mas’ud to negotiate with the Prophet (peace be upon him) in Hudaibiyya, he was greatly impressed by how the companions treated the Prophet. He said, “I have visited the kings of Persia, Rome, and Abyssinia, but I have not seen any leader more revered and respected by his people than Muhammad.
If he ordered them to do anything, they do it promptly delay. If he performs Wudhu (washing up for prayer) they all seek the remainder of the water he used. They never look at him in the eye, out of respect.” This is how the Prophet (peace be upon him) was treated by his companions. He was Allah’s Messenger who possessed great qualities and the best conduct ever.
The rights of the Prophet include compliance with and submission to his orders and believing in what he informed us of the past and future happenings. When a Muslim wants to follow his religion, he must do so believing that the Prophet’s way is the best way. Believing in the Prophet includes the affirmation that his religion is the best religion. Allah said, what translated means:
“But no, by your Lord, they can have no faith, until they make you judge in all disputes between them, and find in themselves no resistance against your decisions, and accept (them) with full submission.” (Qur’an, 4:65), and, “Say (O Muhammad to mankind): If you love Allah then you follow me, Allah will love you and forgive you your sins. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” (Qur’an, 3:31)
To defend the religion of the Prophet is one of his rights upon believers. Defending religion can be done by using arms, speech, and writing. To ignore attacks on the Prophet (peace be upon him) or on his religion is impermissible for Muslims. Muslims must strive to prevent, in the best manner, attacks on the Prophet’s character or on any aspect of his religion, which is the best religion sent to mankind.
– By Sheikh Muhammad Bin Saleh Al-Uthaymeen
Prophet Muhammad (salallahu alayhi wasalam): Ensuring Peace Within The Community
The Prophet (peace be upon him) molded a society in which all people were equal.
When Makkah fell to Islam without a fight, eight years after the Prophet and his companions had to seek refuge away from it as a result of a sustained persecution campaign, Bilal, a black companion of the Prophet and a former slave, stood on top of the Kaabah to make the call to prayer. One of the chiefs of Makkah said to another: “I am glad that my father died before he could see this taking place.” What he did not wish his father to see was that a former slave doing such an honorable action. Class distinction was so important to those people, as it has always been in many human societies. Islam, on the other hand, takes a very different view. All human beings are equal. They distinguish themselves by their deeds. Those of them who are more Allah-fearing achieve a better position in Allah’s standards.
The Prophet was very diligent in his efforts to purge all considerations that separate people and divide them into classes. No consideration of tribe, nation, race, sex, or color was of any value in the society the Prophet molded. All were equal. The Muslims were very happy with their new outlook. They felt that the bond of faith was highly meaningful while their old tribal bonds were of no real value.
Yet this was not an easy endeavor. It is difficult to eradicate old values and traditional standards. Any disturbance could lead to old prejudices surfacing again. An example was the incident that took place after the Prophet and his companions achieved great success, with a little fight in the Battle of Al-Mustalaq.
They were still encamping at the spring which provided the stage for their battle. Servants were taking horses to the water to drink. Among them was Jahjah, Umar ibn Al-Khattab’s servant. Apparently, there was some scrambling at the water among the servants. Jahjah clashed with an ‘ally’ of the Khazraj, named Sinan ibn Wabr. Neither man seemed to be endowed with much wisdom: Punches were exchanged and each appealed to his ‘group’ for help. Jahjah called on the Muhajirin to defend him, while Sinan called on the Ansar. Perhaps one should emphasize here that these two noble groups of Muslims did not feel themselves to be two separate communities. However, in a heated situation, old habits resurfaced. Thus, some individuals hastened to the combatants’ aid.
The Prophet was informed of what was happening. He felt very angry that the Muslims should stand against one another. He went out quickly to the spring where the event was taking place. Speaking strongly to the Muslims, he asked: “How come you are invoking the loyalties of ignorance?” He calmed the two sides and told them plainly that the loyalties they were invoking — tribal and national loyalties — were unworthy of them. They must abandon such ties because they were alien to Islamic values. He described such loyalties as “stinking” and ordered the Muslims to abandon them altogether.
It is indeed worth noting that the Prophet moved quickly to stamp out any tribal or communal division among the Muslims. Indeed, he feared nothing more than internal division in his newly formed community. This should serve as a reminder to all Muslims that their differences should at no time cause a split into separate camps which are hostile to each other when the bond of Islam exists between them all. Muslims may have different points of view, but such differences must not be allowed to alienate any group of them from the other. They must always feel that any Muslim remains a brother with whom they have the strongest of ties. The Muslim community must always remain a single, united community, with mutual love and compassion prevailing among all its members.
– By NAUSHAD SHAMIM AL-HAQ
- January, 18
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Lessons From Death
Life slips away second by second. Are you aware that every day brings you closer to death or that death is as close to you as it is to other people?
We are told in the Qur’an: “Everyone shall taste death. Then unto Us, you shall be returned (29:57).
Everyone on this earth is destined to die. All nations that thrived in one time or another throughout history came to an end. Today, we hardly come across the traces of many of these people who passed away. Those currently living and those who will ever live will also face death on a predestined day. Despite this fact, people tend to see death as an unlikely incident.
Think of a baby who has just opened its eyes to the world and a man who is about to take in his last breath. Neither had an influence on their birth or death whatsoever. Only God possesses the power to inspire the breath of life or to take it away.
All human beings will live until a certain day and then die. In the Qur’an, Allah gives an account of the attitude commonly shown toward death in the following verse.
“Say (to them): “Verily, the death from which you flee, will surely meet you, then you will be sent back to (Allah) the All-Knower of the unseen and the seen, and He will tell you what you used to do.” (62:8)
The majority of people avoid thinking about death. In the rapid flow of daily events, people usually occupy themselves with totally different subjects: what college to enroll in, which company to work for, what color of clothing to wear the next morning, what to cook for supper, etc.
These are the kinds of major issues that we usually consider. Life is perceived as a routine process of such minor matters. Attempts to talk about death are always interrupted by those who do not feel comfortable hearing about it.
Assuming death will come only when people grow older, they do not want to concern themselves with such an unpleasant subject. Yet it should be kept in mind that living for even one further hour is never guaranteed. Every day, people witness the deaths of other people around them but think little about the day when others will witness their own death. People never suppose that such an end is awaiting them!
Namaz Ki Taaqat
Namaz Ki Taaqat
Hide Good Deeds, Just As You Hide Bad Deeds
Ikhlas (Sincerity) is probably the most difficult of all actions in Islam. Sincerity in seeking Allah’s pleasure alone in all our deeds requires a high level of consciousness of our Creator that must be consistent over time. More often than not, we fall into the problem of Riya (showoff), where our deeds are really for the sake of people than for the sake of Allah.
Sheikh Abdul Malik Ar-Ramadani mentions some narrations on this subject from the righteous people of the past in his book Sittu Durar:
Ikhlas is “when the servant’s internal and external actions are the same. And Riya is when the external actions are better than the internal actions (of the heart). Truthfulness in one’s sincerity is when the internal is better (developed) than the external.” (Madarij-us-Salikeen, 2/91)
Bilal Bin Sa’d said, “Do not be a wali (friend) of Allah outwardly, yet an enemy to Him internally.” (Ahmad in Az-Zuhd, Abu Nu’aym in Al-Hilyah)
It has been stated, “Ikhlas is that you do not request anyone to witness your action except Allah and that you do not seek anyone to reward you (for it) except Him.”
Salamah Bin Dinar said, “Hide your good deeds (from the people) just like you hide your evil deeds”. (Abu Nu’aym, Bayhaqi) And in a narration in Al-Bayhaqi, “Hide your good deed like you hide your evil deed, and do not be delighted at your own action, for you do not know whether you are happy or wretched (in the Hereafter).”
It has been stated in the definition of Ikhlas, “It is to single out Allah in one’s intention (qasd) in one’s obedience (to Him).”
Hammad Bin Zaid said, “I used to walk with Ayyoob (As-Sakhtiyani) and he would take me through different routes. I would be surprised at how he would guide himself through them, fleeing from (being seen by) the people who might say, ‘This is Ayyoob.’”
He also said, “Ayyoob used to take me via a route that was the longest and I would say “But this one is closer.” He would reply, “I fear (passing by these) gatherings.” When he would pass by them and give salams, they would reply to him with more than what (they would do for) others. So he would say, ‘O Allah, you know that I did not desire this! O Allah, you know that I did not desire this.’” (Ibn Sa’d, Al-Fasawi)
Abu Zur’ah Bin Abi Amr said, “Ad-Dahhak Bin Qays came out and made the prayer for rain with the people, but they were not granted rain, and nor did they see any clouds come. Ad-Dahhak said, “Where is Yazeed Bin Al-Aswad?” (And in a narration, “But nobody answered him!”. He then said again, “Where is Yazeed Bin Al-Aswad Al-Jurashee?” And I was insistent on calling him that if he was to hear my words he would get up.)
“Here I am,” he said. So (Ad-Dahhak) said, “Stand and intercede with Allah on our behalf, that he should grant us rain.” So Yazeed stood up, made his face pointed in the direction of his feet, and made his head sink into his shoulders (out of humility). He then said, “O Allah, these servants of yours sought intercession through me from You.
So he had not called upon Allah three times except that the people were granted rain in such abundance that they almost drowned on account of it.
Then Yazeed said, “O Allah, this one made a show of me (i.e. Ad-Dahhak, by asking him and calling him out), so grant me freedom from this (fame).”
Yazeed did not live except for the next Jumuah.