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Akhlaq: The Importance Of Islamic Morals

The definition of morals (Akhlaq) in the Arabic language: It is a term derived from the word “Khuluq” meaning the character and the nature; therefore, a man’s character would be his qualities and his morals. The definition of morals in Shari’ah terminology: Morals are the characteristics that Allah (SWT) has ordered Muslims to abide by when performing their actions. They are the commands and prohibitions related to the qualities which the Muslim should demonstrate when performing his actions, be it acts of worship, transactions and others

Since the Shari’ah, or rather restrict the Muslim, his actions are restricted, for Allah (SWT) says: “It is not fitting for a believer, man or woman, when a matter has been decided by Allah and His Messenger, to have any option about their decision. If anyone disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he is indeed on a clearly wrong path” [TMQ 33:36]

And for He (SWT) says: “But no by the Lord, they shall not be believers, until they make you judge in all disputes between them, and find in their souls no resistance against your decisions, but accept them with the fullest conviction.” [TMQ 4:65]

The Negative C’s Of Islamic Parenting

One of the greatest challenges a Muslim will ever face is being a parent. This is one challenge, however, many of us are least prepared for. Allah tells us in the Quran that our children are our trial, and as such, we should take the task of parenting seriously and start learning from each other.

There are many negative C’s, which should also be identified so that we can avoid them or at least be aware of them.

Competition: In an authentic Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad said: “Look up to one who is greater in piety so you strive to be like him and look upon one who is below you in material status so that you may be thankful to Allah’s Grace”. As a Muslim community, we are experiencing the opposite. We are literally killing ourselves to gain bigger and better material goods than others and passing this same competitive spirit to our children. If Br. X’s son is going to Yale, my son must go to Harvard; otherwise, he is a failure, no matter how good a Mumin (believer) he is in comparison to Br. X’s son. We are inadvertently putting so much pressure on our children to compete in Dunya (this world) that we are actually hurting their self-esteem and pushing them away. Remember, if children don’t find acceptance of who they are and what they are capable of at home, they will find it elsewhere.

Receiving Naseeha – Work On Ourselves First

Usually, you’ll find in articles on “The Manners of Naseeha” or “Fiqh of Naseeha” going over how to give Naseeha before mentioning how to accept it. I want to change things up and speak about receiving it first because of the problems many Muslims face with it.

Firstly, you have to humble yourself and break down your walls of arrogance. This lays the foundation for Naseeha to operate on. If every Muslim were to work for this, it would make identifying our mistakes for correction much more streamlined, whether the identification comes from yourself or from your fellow Muslim brother or sister.

Secondly, discard any self-perceived “rank” or “status” in your mind. It doesn’t matter if the person is a different age, or a different nationality, a different Manhaj, a different gender, or different at all. Whether it’s your parent, child, relative, Shaykh, friend, student, a pious person, a sinner, whoever, every Muslim has the right to advise you when you do wrong. Imam Malik (rahimuhullah) once came into a masjid after Asr and was commanded by a boy to pray two rak’ah of Tahayyatul Masjid even though it was clearly contradictory to his Fiqh position. His students saw this and later asked him why he prayed the two rak’ah. Imam Malik replied:

Ten Principles Of Success In the Light Of The Seerah

It is a well-known fact that the Prophet of Islam (PBUH) was the supremely successful man in the entire human history. But he was not just a hero, as Thomas Carlyle has called him. According to the Qur’an, he was a good example for all mankind. He has shown us the way to achieve supreme success in this world.

By studying the life of the Prophet, we can derive those important principles that the Prophet followed. In short, the Prophet of Islam was a profoundly positive thinker in every sense of the word. All his activities were result-oriented. He completely refrained from all such steps as may prove counter-productive.

First Principle: To begin from the possible
This principle is well explained in a saying of Aisha RA. She said: “Whenever the Prophet had to choose between two options, he always opted for the easier choice.” (Al-Bukhari) To choose the easiest option means to begin from the possible, and one who begins from the possible will surely reach his goal.

Second Principle: To see advantage in disadvantage
In the early days of Mecca, there were many problems and difficulties. At that time, a guiding verse in the Qur’an was revealed. It said: “With every hardship there is ease, with every hardship there is ease.” (94:5-6). This means that if there are some problems, there are also opportunities at the same time. And the way to success is to ignore the problems and avail the opportunities.

The Life Of This World Is, But Goods And Chattels Of Deception

“Fair in the eyes of men is the love of things they covet: Women and sons; Heaped-up hoards of gold and silver; horses branded (for blood and excellence); and (wealth of) cattle and well-tilled land. Such are the possessions of this world’s life; but in nearness to Allah is the best of the goals (To return to).” (Surah-3 Ale-Imran Ayah-14)

“Those who desire the life of the present and its glitter,- to them, we shall pay (the price of) their deeds therein,- without diminution.”

“They are those for whom there is nothing in the Hereafter but the Fire: vain are the designs they frame therein, and of no effect and the deeds that they do!” (Surah-11 Hud Ayah-15-16)

“Wealth and sons are allurements of the life of this world: But the things that endure, good deeds, are best in the sight of thy Lord, as rewards, and best as (the foundation for) hopes.” (Surah-18 Al-Kahf Ayah-46)

“What is the life of this world but amusement and play? But verily the Home in the Hereafter,- that is life indeed, if they but knew.” (Surah-29 *Al-Ankaboot* Ayah-64)

“If any do wish for the transitory things (of this life), We readily grant them – such things as We will, to such person as We will: in the end have We provided Hell for them: they will burn therein, disgraced and rejected.”

“Those who do wish for the (things of) the Hereafter, and strive therefor with all due striving, and have Faith, – they are the ones whose striving is acceptable (to Allah)” (Surah-17 Al-Isra Ayah-18-19)

“Day (behold), ye prefer the life of this world;”
“But the Hereafter is better and more enduring.” (Surah-87 Al-Alaa Ayah-16-17)

“Know ye (all), that the life of this world is but play and amusement, pomp and mutual boasting and multiplying, (in rivalry) among yourselves, riches and children. Here is a similitude: How rain and the growth which it brings forth, delight (the hearts of) the tillers; soon it withers; thou wilt see it grow yellow; then it becomes dry and crumbles away. But in the Hereafter is a Penalty severe (for the devotees of wrong). And Forgiveness from Allah and (His) Good Pleasure (for the devotees of Allah.. And what is the life of this world, but goods and chattels of deception? ”

(Surah-57 Al-Hadid Ayah-20)